To me, smartphones have been a bit of a personal phobia. My perception is that I will become addicted to using the phone, and never have a life. Recently mothers taught me that BlackBerries can be more than for work – they can really enrich and simplify life.
Perhaps I am like many people – I jump to a conclusion about a product. All my experience about BlackBerries (and other smartphones, to be honest) has told me – perhaps incorrectly – that they are for work, and for people that are work-a-holics. As I have strong work-a-holic tendencies, I have shied away from replacing my archaic ‘regular’ mobile phone that does simple texts and allows me conversations with those to whom I need to speak. Even when my phone died, I chose the minimum phone I could, and felt that I leapt forward because it actually has a camera (my previous phone did not). I have even, covertly, looked with desire at the new BlackBerries on offer – only to run away, scared (of myself and my potential reaction).
Mums taught me that I may be thinking about BlackBerries a bit narrowly. Even though most people think of BlackBerries for the driven business man, they said, the mums found them to be useful, too.
“Useful for what?” I asked, a bit sarcastically (though my sarcasm was genuinely unintended).
“I can keep up on all the things I need to get done, yet not have to leave my children,” said one mum, proudly.
“I love that I can use all the in-between moments more effectively – when I am waiting for my children after school, or while they are involved in their activities,” said another. “Now when my kids go to bed, my partner and I can spend more time together – rather than me having to do all the stuff that needs to get done in a day.”
“I love that I can answer any question – the answers are at my fingertips, all the time.” She then went on to show me how she googles and learns what she needs to know. “My kids think I’m the best!” she added, proudly.
I am a bit humbled – I admit it. My prejudice was unfounded. A product, initially targeted to one sector, is discovered and provides great benefit to another. And it wasn’t that type of aspirational desire of mums – it wasn’t that they wanted to ‘keep up with the Joneses’. They were genuine BlackBerry fans.
I regularly walk by the phone shop, now. I still look at BlackBerries. My mobile phone contract is up soon – maybe I should reconsider a BlackBerry? I am still a bit nervous for my potential addiction. But thanks to the mums I worked with, I am a big step closer to accepting that a BlackBerry could make my life simpler, not more obsessive.